Person in change

When a person changes

I think in our life, sometimes we all do feel like that we are changed, from the person we used to be once or maybe in some cases from the person we used to be yesterday. But I wonder why? When we are in the strong situation we believe no one or nothing can make us change, and this is the person that defines you most.

According to my study of my behavior I found, our desire does not make us change into a different person, it is the failure of your desire that makes the change in most. It can be anything from not having the perfect cup of tea in the evening which you was dreaming for the entire afternoon or maybe your desire for touch from your partner which did not go well. 

Now sometimes I ask myself how to deal with it. yes, how? Do you have any answer? I don't have any but I try lots of things. Actually, it is not that much, I do always try to put myself into the books. but yes frankly, most of the time it did not work for me. May yourself is bigger and harder than any fiction.